Identity Theft (Lost?)

Date: Jan 27, 2005
Place: Los Angeles

I belong to a religion called ‘Hindu’ in India. Compared to Christian and Muslim communities, Hindu religion may not have many followers, but is the primary religion in India.

Sincere Hindu followers conduct in-house prayers everyday morning after bath. Some even recite mantra and Sanskrit poems, while others use friendly language to speak to God. After prayer, they wear a sacred powder in their forehead signifying the presence of the God. This powder may be of different color based on the God you worship, the common one being the white powder (‘thiruneeru’). This is comparable to the ash that Christians wear during ash-Wednesday.

In India, on any fine day, if you are in a technology park or in a business development center, you would see at least 50% of the men and women wearing these traditional powders in their forehead.

Here comes the disdain:
When these people travel to foreign countries, particularly to US, they either do not wear these marks or they rub off soon after the prayer is over (??). The common reason being ‘In US, the client folks are very particular about their religion and they would see this as invasion’. Te next famous one is ‘Oh, they would be surprised and often ask questions on how this works – I don’t want to be embarrassed.”

I wonder if these people believe and trust the Hindu religion, only when in India. Does God disappear when they are in America? If you believe in something, you should be confident enough to carry it over –irrespective of where you are – India or US, Client place or home.

Are American’s concerned about this? No. I wear my religion marks to office or wherever I go and people do not usually question that. Yes, they are surprised to see this for the first time. At times, if I have worked with someone long enough, they come and ask me, “Hey, if you don’t mind me asking, what is that orange mark in your forehead?” and I explain it to them.

I had a women colleague who used to wear such red marks in India and avoid the same in US. She would say “If you are acting as a dog, you are supposed to bark”. And I think that is the worst crap I have ever heard.